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@u/InspectorVisible5212about 1 month ago
friendshipawkward situation
"took advantage of friend in vulnerable state"
took my best friend to her bed and kissed her after she was drunk
What I wish I knew
"to respect her boundaries even when drunk"
Advice

"be honest and communicate with your friends about your intentions"

10/10 regret
0
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@u/WashclothManabout 1 month ago
friendshipunbalanced communication
"I pretend I don't notice they don't wanna talk to me"
I feel like I'm always the one to initiate plans and conversations with my friends, even though they seem to genuinely like me when we hang out
What I wish I knew
"that I don't need to constantly seek validation from others"
Advice

"don't pretend like you're fine when you're not, it's okay to address issues in your relationships"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/Responsible-Juice821about 1 month ago
friendshiplost
"Tried to help suicidal friend"
Friend tried to take her life, I stayed with her but couldn't help her as much as she expected
What I wish I knew
"How to deal with guilt and move on"
Advice

"Don't compare new friendships to old ones"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_RevolutionaryAsk15038 months ago
friendshipbetrayal
"cut off friend group after false accusations"
best friend falsely accused me of forcing him to jerk off together, friend group abandoned me
What I wish I knew
"they would have believed my side of the story"
Advice

"don't stay silent when someone is being wronged"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_deleted8 months ago
friendshipmaking friends
"using social media to meet people"
I met some friends online but struggle to connect in person
What I wish I knew
"how to initiate in-person conversations"
Advice

"follow people with mutual followers and engage with their content"

6/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Ashamed_Spare8748 months ago
friendshipLost Contact
"Forgot friend's name and face"
Forgot friend's identity, worried about awkward encounters
What I wish I knew
"Recognized them earlier"
Advice

"Pay attention to friends' details"

6/10 regret
0
Author
@u_ThrowRA-Bromine9 months ago
friendshipabusive
"treated friend horribly"
treated friend to self-deprecation, neglect, and perversion
What I wish I knew
"how my actions affected her"
Advice

"be honest and respectful in relationships"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u_qweepher69699 months ago
friendshipUncertain Feelings
"Falling in love with a friend"
Met in high school, became close friends after break-up, developed romantic feelings
What I wish I knew
"Watched for signs of romantic interest before acting"
Advice

"Communicate feelings openly and honestly, respect the other person's boundaries"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_jenabel89 months ago
friendshiptoxic
"ended 15 year friendship by text"
ended toxic friendship after years of being blamed
What I wish I knew
"set boundaries sooner"
Advice

"end toxic relationships quickly"

1/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Viktorija77710 months ago
friendshipJob Opportunity
"Accepted job covering friend's maternity leave"
My friend is upset and ghosting me after I accepted a job covering her maternity leave
What I wish I knew
"How she would react to the situation"
Advice

"Communicate openly and honestly with friends about job opportunities"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Capital-Extreme-665410 months ago
friendshipBoyfriend's research guide
"Oversharing concerns with boyfriend"
My boyfriend's research guide and I have become close friends, but I'm possessive and feel like she's taking too much time with him, especially when they travel and spend intimate time together
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how to navigate my feelings and communicate them to my boyfriend without being too controlling"
Advice

"Don't overthink and communicate openly with your partner about your feelings and concerns"

6/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Potato87878610 months ago
friendshipjealousy
"feel jealous of closer friendships"
I feel like a filler in my best friend's life, overshadowed by J and N
What I wish I knew
"how to bridge the gap in our friendship"
Advice

"don't compare yourself to others in your friend group"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Expensive-Fly836111 months ago
friendshipRelationship Advice
"Concern for friend's well-being"
Friend's toxic relationship affecting their habits
What I wish I knew
"Recognize toxic signs sooner"
Advice

"Approach with empathy, avoid judgment"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Willing_Comfort_159711 months ago
friendshiploneliness
"made friends through buying/selling weed"
realized I don't know how to make friends outside of weed
What I wish I knew
"how to make friends without using weed"
Advice

"be genuine and find common interests"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_ProjectOdd534411 months ago
friendshipconfusing behavior
"I'm confused about my best friend's behavior"
My best friend, who's engaged, has been treating me strangely, being overly touchy and flirtatious, then suddenly stopped hanging out with me
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had set clearer boundaries"
Advice

"Be cautious of friends who are overly touchy or flirtatious, especially if they're in a relationship"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Old-Concentrate284612 months ago
friendshipunrequited feelings
"I need to address the situation"
I may have unintentionally led them on with my behavior overshadowing our friendship
What I wish I knew
"clearer boundaries and communication"
Advice

"be honest and direct, but also respectful"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_National-Inside-4281about 1 year ago
friendshipunrequited love
"I didn't express my feelings"
I developed feelings for my friend, but she had a boyfriend and later started dating someone else
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had been honest about my feelings earlier"
Advice

"Be honest about your feelings, even if it's scary"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_ThrowRA_Bestieeabout 1 year ago
friendshipromantic feelings
"consider pursuing romantic feelings"
I've developed strong feelings for my best friend, who may feel the same way
What I wish I knew
"how to navigate the situation without affecting my kid"
Advice

"be cautious and consider the potential consequences"

6/10 regret
0
Author
@u_JoeHartlessover 1 year ago
friendshipUnrequited feelings
"Developed feelings for a friend"
I've been quietly building huge feelings for my friend over several weeks
What I wish I knew
"How to handle unrequited feelings without jeopardizing the friendship"
Advice

"Be honest with yourself and consider the potential consequences"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_KirikouCaribeover 1 year ago
friendshipdifficult relationships
"telling a friend they're draining me"
friend's constant drama and invasion of my space exhausted me
What I wish I knew
"how to set boundaries sooner"
Advice

"be honest and direct when expressing concerns"

8/10 regret
0